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✅ Security & Safety Guidelines – VSS Matrimonial Services

At VSS Matrimonial Services (VssMatri.com), your privacy, safety, and security are our highest priority.
We understand the importance of protecting your personal information during your life-partner search.

That is why we follow a strict profile-screening process to remove:

  • Fake profiles

  • Irrelevant or inappropriate content

  • Misleading information

  • Abusive users

We also have strong abuse-prevention and reporting tools to instantly act against suspicious users.

We follow the principle:

“Mistrust the obvious.”
Be alert, be careful, and trust your instincts.

While we work hard to protect you, safety also depends on your responsible behaviour. Please follow the important Do’s and Don’ts below.

✅ DO’s — Safety Measures to Follow

1. Stay Anonymous Initially

Do not share your personal contact details until you completely trust the person.

2. Observe Behaviour Carefully

Genuine people will:

  • Respect your space

  • Allow you time

  • Not rush or force you

Watch for inconsistencies in their stories.

3. Take a Second Opinion

Ask a friend or family member to review messages you receive.
An unbiased person can spot red flags that you may miss.

4. Avoid People Who Ask Unwanted Personal Questions

Stop communication if someone:

  • Pressurizes you

  • Asks for personal details too soon

  • Tries to trick or manipulate you

5. Request Photos Through Platform

Use our Photo Request feature.
Since we offer free photo scanning & upload, any genuine member should be able to share clear photos.

Be cautious if:

  • They avoid sharing photos

  • They give excuses

  • They share only edited or unclear images

6. Verify With Multiple Photos

Ask for photos in different settings:

  • Indoor

  • Outdoor

  • Casual

  • Formal

This helps avoid fake profiles.

7. Protect Your Phone Number

Use:

  • A secondary or prepaid mobile number

  • Caller ID blocking

Share your number only when you are comfortable.

8. Check Unknown Phone Numbers

If someone shares a number with a strange area code, verify it is not a premium-rate chargeable number before calling.

9. Be Cautious When Meeting Offline

  • Meet in a public place (mall, café, restaurant)

  • Arrange your own transport

  • Inform a friend/family about the meeting

  • Share their full name and phone number with someone you trust

10. Take Someone Along

For the first meeting, take a trusted friend or relative with you.

11. Ask Questions

Ask detailed questions and look for contradictions.
Consistency indicates honesty.

12. Watch for Red Flags

Be alert if the person shows:

  • Anger

  • Frustration

  • Controlling behaviour

  • Disrespect

  • Physically inappropriate advances

These are danger signs.

13. Beware of Money Requests

A genuine life partner will never ask for money.
If anyone asks for:

  • Travel expenses

  • Medical emergencies

  • Business investment

  • Mobile recharge

  • Any financial help

Stop immediately and report them to us.

❌ DON’Ts — Things You Should Avoid

1. Do NOT share personal details too soon

Avoid sharing:

  • Full name

  • Phone number

  • Email address

  • Home address

  • Workplace

  • Social media links

2. Don’t use your official email

Use a private email without personal details in it.

3. Don’t use signatures with contact info

Remove auto-signature containing your phone or email.

4. Never allow them to pick you up

Do not share your home address or workplace for pick up/drop.

5. Avoid secluded places

Do not meet:

  • In isolated areas

  • In private homes

  • In dark or unsafe locations

  • For movies alone on the first meeting

6. Don’t ignore inconsistent information

Be careful if they provide mismatched details about:

  • Age

  • Job

  • Salary

  • Education

  • Family

  • Marital status

7. Don’t trust someone who avoids direct answers

If they:

  • Avoid answering questions

  • Change the subject

  • Hide their family

  • Refuse to introduce you

  • Refuse video calls
    → Be cautious.

8. Don’t rush into intimacy

Fraudsters often:

  • Show too much love early

  • Create emotional pressure

  • Try to gain sympathy

  • Disappear after gaining trust

Take your time to understand the person.

🔒 Footnote: Our Cooperation With Law Enforcement

VssMatri.com maintains a good relationship with:

  • Local Police Authorities

  • Cyber Crime Investigation Cell

We fully support investigations related to:

  • Fraud

  • Harassment

  • Identity theft

  • Abuse

  • Financial scams

We will provide required information to the authorities when a genuine complaint is received.

If you face inappropriate behaviour from any member, please report it immediately by emailing:

📩 vssmatri@gmail.com
📞 7010109001 / 9944229986

❤️ Final Advice

Always trust your instincts.
Your intuition is your strongest protection.

Choose wisely, stay safe, and progress your marital journey only with the right person.